3 LESSONS I'VE LEARNED FROM 13 YEARS OF MARRIAGE

Three days ago, my wife and I celebrated our 13th year anniversary. It has been an adventure.  Here are some of the things I've learned so far : 1. Two heads are better than one.  My success as an entrepreneur, author and as a father was massively influenced by my wife. She told me I can do it – even when I doubted. She spoke the truth and argued when that was what I really needed. She held my hand, even after those...
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GOING BACK TO WHERE YOU STARTED?

A wrong turn may have brought you to a dead end – a cul-de-sac. Instead of going near, you are now even farther to your destination. You can respond in two ways. You can accept the repercussions of your decision, or you can deny, stall or decide to go with indecision.  Sometimes, there's no other way but to go back. It's the only move to find your way again.  Time wasted? Perhaps yes. Was it worth the risk? Only...
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WHAT I LEARNED FROM JON SANTOS ... MASTERY THEN SPONTANEITY

Jon Santos rocked the fundraising I attended last night in The Peninsula. It was so fun to see him perform in person. He impersonated three known people in the country and came in as Sen. Defensive Santiago, Pres. Erap Espada and Aling Dionisio. He was breathing each character. No doubt, he researched thoroughly. He knew his material and found humor in every story. Yet, even with a script, he was able to interact with the crowd...
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GETTING THE RIGHT WORK

After years of studying, it's tempting to go PMA. (Pahinga-Muna-Anak) Before taking that long awaited break you've been dreaming of, allow me to offer some "unconventional" advice that you may want to consider. 1. When choosing a career or putting up a business – find the "Sweet Spot." Note: You won't know which work will be 'enjoyable' for you until you give it a try. I thought entrepreneurship wasn't for me. (I...
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IN THE BUSINESS OF BRINGING OUT THE BEST IN PEOPLE...

Putting up a business is exciting. One of the keys to success is to find something you can do that help others in a big way. Entrepreneurship is rarely about what you can get as an entrepreneur. The rewards pour in when you see others benefit from what you give or deliver. After 15 years in business, several talks and consulting work around the country, it is my privilege to partner with Ryan Peralta and Bob Barcebal.   Ryan...
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"LOLO MUSIC"

You don't want your children to look at you as too old. Emo, Rock or whatever genre, listen to the songs they listen to. Watch their TV shows. Attempt to understand how Twitter works... Why try to be a cool dad?  Why not? Photo Cred...
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GET YOUR FEET WET

Inside of you is a longing to do something great.  Whether it's raising your children well, building a profitable business or making art, you can't deny your eagerness to make things even better. How do you start?  Let go of the excuses. Do something uncomfortable. Expect mistakes. Allow to get your feet wet.  [Photo Credit...
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