TWO WAYS TO LOOK AT 2012

To dread it or to look forward to it. You can say "I'm still not where I am supposed to be." Or hope and say, "This is the year I've been waiting for." The words that we choose can make or break the 'good things' in our lives. From the fruit of his lips a man is filled with good things as surely as the work of his hands rewards him. – Proverbs 12:14  Awesome Photo by – Photo Cred...
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The Top 9 – What we are thankful for this 2011

1. My wife's good health.  "Health is wealth" is a sales pitch I used to avoid. The saying became real to me when my wife went in and out of the hospital for several years. (gall stones, appendectomy, severe migraine, etc) This 2011, I thank God for a hospital-free year.  I don't miss sleeping in the 'transformer' sofa bed. 2. Stronger relationship with the kids.  I make time for each one. My eldest...
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What makes it a gift? (30 sec read)

What makes it a gift? A gift is freely given. If I'd require one from you, it's no longer a gift. It becomes a demand. A gift isn't a transaction. It's delivered without expecting something in return. A gift is freely received and appreciated. You shouldn't send it back to the gift-giver. A gift may be given out of love, appreciation or obligation. You are wise enough to do it for the first two reasons. ~                                                                               ...
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You can make it work. (note to self)

"It might not work."  "They might not like it." "Nobody might show up." Do you only try when you're most likely to succeed? Or do you apply faith to create your chances?  Take wise risks. Take a stand. Be willing to do what others aren't willing to do.  "Will this ever work?" isn't the question to ask. It's "How quickly can I make this work?" [Photo Credi...
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"Yes, but..." : How to use the word 'BUT' (20sec read)

'BUT' is a word we use to contrast something. "That's good, but..." (reason why it's not) "Yes, but..." (no) "I believe, but..." (I doubt it) Many times when a period would suffice, we can't help it, we still say 'but'. Leave out the negative 'buts'. Mainly the ones that pull down good ideas, zealous spirits or 'aha' moments. Instead, put it to good use. "It's a stretch, but it's possible" "I'm tired, but it's going to be worth...
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MOST EMBARRASSING MOMENT OR 5-SECONDS OF FAME?

In a crowded Starbucks, I nudged a tray and accidentally dropped a plate off my table. Just like in the movies, I saw the plate fell in slow motion. As soon as it crashed the floor, silence entered the room and all eyes zoomed at me. I can still hear the sound of the espresso machine hiccuped. I froze for a second – quickly thinking how to react. I smiled, made an 'Ooops!' facial expression, and pretended as if it wasn't me. Then...
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Think Less. Thank More.

A small peek into your "I-don't-have-list" can instantly ruin your day. It doesn't take much effort to be anxious. While to live with thankfulness is a decision, a wiser alternative. Even the little things deserve an appreciation. We can avoid too much thinking, when we ought to be 'living'. [Photo Credi...
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SHOULD I DO MY BEST TO PLEASE MY BOSS? (30sec read)

No, don't do it for him, you won't last long. 'Approval' is a flimsy motivator. Put out your best work not to impress people. Do it as if you were doing it for the Lord. (Col 3:7) He gave you your abilities in the first place. You have his approval – even before you asked. As you do this, watch how your work add value to your organization. And if you do well, your boss might become happy as an end result. Photo Cred...
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DON'T AMBUSH. CONNECT INSTEAD. #smartselling

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You were walking around the mall on a Sunday to unwind, relax or take a break. From afar, you see a booth, but you don't have a clue what it's about. "Sir, my name is Bobby. I'd just like to take two minutes of your time" a well-dressed rep respectfully asks you. You have three options – look sideways and turn a blind ear, say yes and endure what he has to say, or offer a sincere "I'm sorry, I need to be somewhere" excuse. Two minutes...
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MAKE SOMEONE HAPPY.

Making one person smile is big. Yet, they chose to make three people happy. After watching this Coke Video, you'll realize that even an organization as big as Coca-cola can possibly have a heart. For sure, they've touched their families. They've inspired us many. Kudos to you– Coke Philippines. ...
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